It is often an ironic circumstance when an attorney gets sued, a doctor gets sick, or a cobbler needs a set of shoes. Professionals sometimes need the services of their own profession. Such was the case last week when my own car got hit in the parking lot of a local watering hole. I came out after a night with some friends to see my driver-side door smashed in. Not surprisingly, none of the bouncers had seen a thing and the owner, while pleasant, wasn’t very forthcoming.
It was fortunate that the damage was comparatively minor…the repair shop ended up charging a minor $400 to unbend the metal (or whatever composites they use in this day and age) and repaint it.
But, it did leave me a bit annoyed at the idea that I’d be out any money (and could have been out much more). I would have loved to argue that the bar’s GL policy should have kicked in, but the reality of pursuing that for a small dollar amount at a bar I actually want to go back to in the future was not in the cards. Regardless of their culpability in having a dark parking lot, dangerous parking lot, or any other argument really gets outweighed by the basic social premise that I didn’t want to destroy my relationship with the bar owner over $400. I think many of our clients sometimes miss this bigger picture that there is a cost to just ‘existing’ in life and maintaining relationships we want to hold. There is a gap between the “paper legal & financial” instruments we put in place and the reality of how we use them.
Isn’t that what life ends up being about?

